Sounds a right nightmare and sorry to hear this as nobody should be treated this way and this sounds like something our friends at CannCareUK could help you with and whilst they don't open until 9 soon as we can we'll get in touch and can highlight this to them if you would like and put you in contact.
okay thankyou i will try to contact themIt could be just speech but would fit in with other reasoning and with the worries you have I probably would suggest you contact CannCareUK where you can talk in confidence and private to get the support/advice on this considering the fears you have.